I went through a tragedeigh phase of spelling my deadname...

So for context, I am a trans man and my legal name now is a bit different but socially except able.

However, before I came out years later, I went through a phase of trying to embrace my differences, as I've always been seen as different and weird. I'm autistic with a bunch of other conditions, and not ashamed of it anymore.

My deadname used to be 'Victoria', which is perfectly okay. I used to go by vicky. Also okay. But over time I ended up with derivatives and quirky spellings...

  • Viccy
  • Vickie
  • Vyckie
  • Vyccie
  • Vyccy
  • Vyccky
  • Vykkie -Vikkie

And eventually...

✨Vycckyie✨

Okay so they aren't horrendous but looking back that was definitely a cringe phase of my short life so far... Like all my other cringe phases.

Summary: I am cringe and spelling your name as uniquely as possible just causes confusion and bullying 😂