Husband got a vasectomy

Telling here because my husband told me not to tell anyone. It’s been a few years since he got it and it is driving me crazy with everyone saying, “you might be pregnant” or “you are going to get pregnant” when I know there’s no chance.

My husband won’t let me tell anyone because he is really worried what his dad will think less of him for getting a vasectomy. His dad is adamant that men shouldn’t get them. He also thinks it’s weird I did not circumcise my son. We are Americans and it’s the thing to do.

I stand by it’s your body and your choice what happens to it. Male or female for your whole life, just because I am mom doesn’t give me the right to change it with exceptions of medical necessity. The men on that side made a stupid argument of “well what if your girls want ear piercings?” and I responded well that’s why I didn’t pierce their ears as babies, I believe body modification of any kind should be up to the person. My girls still have not pierced their ears because they don’t want to. Why are people so weird about what happens to the penis?

I would like to add I did not force my husband to get one. We agreed we were done and I told him the cost of the procedure and what each of us would go through to become sterilized. He agreed the vasectomy was the better option. Also he has been very happy with his choice! The sex got better!!