When did you learn you liked findom?

When did you learn you liked findom? What led you to findom? My ex got me into it. I was already a part of other kink communities at the time and we decided to try something new. I didnt think I would end up liking it as much as I do lol. That's when I found out how much of a thrill and turn on it is to use men like my own personal atm. Curious to hear from my fellow dommes about how they found the community 🩷🩷