Zimbos ( ages 45 to 60) Anyone Home?!

Just wondering if there are people who have essentially stayed home ‘through it all’. I feel like an outlier- though been quite graced with jobs that took me places( literally), have beautiful children that I ( not my cheating ex!) have been graced to raise (very) well, and now have opportunity to re-pitch my life, I feel so alone. Am ready to re-model life but most people ( male and female) I would probably resonate with, have gapped- for the reason, or rather perception, that our country is ‘un-liveable’. Now suddenly what riddles my paradigm are notions that forgot it Zimbo men are cheats, Zimbo women are gold-diggers, Zimbo children ought to go abroad for uni and even I have to get a job there! These are notions that fly around hence I didn’t prefix them with ‘most’. Anyone home, whether been there done that and returned or been here through and through… let’s talk.