Finding your “tribe”??

I loathe that saying “finding your tribe” but I do understand and agree with the sentiment of finding your people.

I (44F) have trouble finding it, though. Any tips or anyone in the same boat?

I have some friends but they are different seasons in their life like raising children. I am childless and unmarried. I have a partner but he is a homebody so I do a lot of things solo, so I’m thinking that may be why I’m having trouble. Or maybe I have a crappy personality lol