Tw - MMC early pregnancy. Which option of managed miscarriage did you go for?

I had my 12 week scan yesterday and we found out that there was no heartbeat, and the foetus was dated at 9 weeks. We are devasted about the missed miscarriage.

I'm now trying to choose which managed miscarriage option would be best between medical or surgical.

I've got the MM medication booked but from some research, it looks pretty rough - the meds can give some horrible side effects and then there's the whole miscarriage process itself to go through.

I've managed to source the surgical option too. It seems like the easier option to go through as I'll be asleep and then it's pretty much over (aside from extra bleeding etc and potential complications from surgery/anaesthetic).

Has anybody ever had either of these options and how did you find it? It's been awful enough finding out the news yesterday and I would just like the next step of this to be as informed as possible. Any advice or just ranting about how crap this all is would be great!