My sister told me she proudly hates trans women and will never respect them or their views.
She said this after everyone found out I changed my name and that I had been on HRT for 8 months. She was appalled that I think I know the first thing about being a woman or their struggle, and how dare we people keep trying to piggyback off the oppression actual minorities with actual problems have. I'm just a misogynistic man who thinks prancing around in skirts and having long hair defines a woman. Also, I'll never pass and everyone mocks trans people's looks behind their backs and only supports them to their faces because they don't really care. And my hair is stupid.
And somehow I am simultaneously a delusional, child-like autistic person who can't think for themselves BUT ALSO a selfish asshole who is deliberately fucking over the family just because I don't care about their feelings. But also fuck my feelings.
I need to get out and I need to get out quickly.