do some players just secretly hate the game??

this is like a genuine question, i've started playing around a week or two ago and actually love the game, i'm just starting penacony. i'm just so baffled that when i interact with the community it seems like some people actively hate the game. like it seems like people who pull for meta characters can't comprehend the concept of pulling someone you like? and i just don't really get it, cuz like... what's even the point of playing? i'm playing cuz i want pretty women (and sometimes men), not cuz i want a perfectly optimized team. and like, i remember asking how long penacony is because i wanted to get to amphoreus for the new events, and someone told me to skip all the dialogue? why?? why wouldn't i have already just unlocked it early then?? sorry for this post just being a rant but i'm genuinely curious if this is the majority of players or not.