How many of you came to similar conclusions as when you were in your faith, but from a different perspective?

For example, in Christianity, I was told just to have faith even if things didn't make sense because who are we to question god?
Now I see it as while I can totally question god and deconstruction simply took apart the belief system - there is still mystery and there are even fewer answers that I have before. So there is still an element of "faith" if you will, but no judgement if I question. And I now realize I know far less than I thought I did.

Or another one is love. In christianity it was love your neighbor because god loves you and died for you so it is your duty to love.
Now I understand love is what makes life worth living whether there is a god or not. It's also incredibly painful to love but it is not required.