Too little too late.

My low libido husband (28m) told me (27fhl) he will have sex every time I ask because I told him his rejection has caused me to not want sex anymore. Seems great but I know it wont happen, I stopped initiating for my mental health and the idea of even trying to initiate now makes me shudder.

He says he feels awful for killing my sex drive, problem is my sex drive is alive and well, I just dont want it from him any more. I've been rejected hundreds if not thousands of times by him and I'm not interested in 15 minute morning quickies, or afternoon manipulation so that I'm easier to handle after weeks of nothing. I want unexpected passion and my partner to have an insatiable appetite. Even though he says he will try I dont think I want to wait anymore. I've spent 6 years with this man, 4 of those in an all but dead bed and I'm done.

Those of you who have made the choice to leave, what was your final straw? Did anything make leaving easier?