Does Anyone Have Emotionally Immature Parents?

Idk about everyone but a lot of the reason of my bpd is caused by my parents specifically of their emotional immaturity they neglected me and parentified me as a child shaming me and don't know how to regulate their own emotions and used me as a tool to help them regulate their emotions.Everytime we have a argument or conflict silent treatment is the first thing to come up and in every conflict its always wanting to win the argument instead of solving the problem.All of my bpd is caused by my emotional immature parents they shouldn't even have children in the first place.Does anyone have emotionally immature parents too how were they like do you think they caused you to become borderline?